“Dearest Brother,” a gripping memoir by Andrew Bethell, is a poignant and deeply personal exploration of grief, guilt, and the long journey towards healing and understanding. This book is not just a story of loss; it is an odyssey of rediscovery, as the author grapples with the suicide of his brother, which occurred four decades ago.

The memoir is a journey back in time, traversing through the post-war era of the author’s childhood, the separation from parents due to boarding school, and the pivotal years his brother spent in Western Australia. These formative years, set against a backdrop of cultural and political turbulence, are vividly brought to life through the letters from his brother, shedding light on a period filled with new freedoms, confusion, and the quintessential elements of student life – sex, drugs, and the pursuit of dreams.

More than just a recounting of past events, “Dearest Brother” delves into the author’s internal struggle. For years, he harboured a mix of anger and guilt, feelings that corrupted his memories and understanding of his brother. This memoir is his determined effort to confront these emotions, to rediscover the brotherly love that was lost, and to possibly understand the reasons behind his brother’s tragic decision.

“Dearest Brother” is more than an autobiography; it’s a testament to the complexity of human emotions and relationships. It’s a story of coming to terms with a painful past and finding a way to heal from a tragedy that leaves an indelible mark on the soul. This memoir is not just for those who have experienced a similar loss; it’s for anyone seeking understanding and compassion in the aftermath of a suicide.

The book stands out for its raw honesty, emotional depth, and insightful reflections. It’s a journey through pain and anger towards a place of acceptance and understanding, offering hope and empathy to others who have walked a similar path.